Childhood sexual abuse is any unwanted sexual touch, all unwanted sexual acts including threats, exposure, sexual touching, and attempted or actual sexual assaults.

Childhood sexual abuse happens to children of every class, culture, race, religion, gender, and sexual orientation. Children are abused by fathers, stepfathers, uncles, brothers, grandparents, neighbors, family friends, babysitters, teachers, camp counsellors, strangers, and sometimes by aunts and mothers. Although women do abuse, the majority of abusers are heterosexual men who know the person they are abusing.

All childhood sexual abuse is damaging, and the trauma does not stop when the abuse stops. If you have experienced childhood sexual abuse, you may be experiencing long-term effects that interfere with your daily well-being.

Childhood sexual abuse is a betrayal of trust and a violation. It is always about power and control. It is possible to find positive coping strategies and heal from the trauma of abuse.

Adapted in part from Courage to Heal – a guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse, 3rd Edition, by Ellen Bass and Laura Davis, published by Harper Perennial, 1994.